Many persons have the mistake of thinking that their sexual fantasies will result in embarrassment if they disclose it to others. The fact that you find your sexual fantasies embarrassing is the primary reason why you are hesitant to speak about the same. There is a voice inside you that is telling you that your desire to get spanked by a dominatrix is wrong, unacceptable and vulgar. Until you have silenced the voice inside you and have convinced yourself that it is perfectly acceptable to have these fantasies, you will never been a position to enjoy the sex fantasies properly.
Look out your window. Maybe you live in the city, in which case you’ll see people wandering past. Maybe you live in the country and rarely see people. One thing they have in common is this: all people have desires. You can take a person out of a place, but their desire goes with them. Always, every time.
One desire which you may or may not be surprised many people have is the desire to be spanked. We’re not talking soft spanks here either…we’re talking hard spanks. The kind of spanks which hurt and bruise but which thrill all the same. The kind of spanks that leave long red danger lines. Lines which tell of intense pain and the kind of exquisite gorgeous pleasure that is impossible to describe using merely words…
See, behind closed doors, both here and in the country, spanking is going on. Secretary’s and police officers and old women are bending over and getting spanked HARD. Why? Because it’s fun and you should think about trying it too!
The desires that burn within us are meant to be used and enjoyed, people
You hear about spanking in the strangest places, too. On the bus or on the train; on walks in the rain with everyone hiding under bus shelters and still getting a bit wet. In the underground at night when you listen in on raunchy conversations between total strangers…
One such conversation I overheard recently was between an old couple who were thinking about trying spanking out: it was the woman – very prim and proper – who was initiating the conversation. Her husband was a war veteran with a stiff upper lip, but you could just see in his eyes that he knew EXACTLY what she was talking about.
So this is a message from me saying that you can do whatever you like, really, and you should never feel afraid to excercise your right to power over your own glorious body. If you’re a 50 year old school headmistress with a desire to be a domme , you should do it, or at least try it out. Why not? Really, what is stopping you besides your own insecurities and feelings? The desires that burn within us are meant to be used and enjoyed however we see fit, people, so never be afraid of opening yourself up to exploring the myriad of sexual and sensual possibilities! if you do you may just find out that there’s more to this spanking malarkey than first meets the eye…
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